Everyone is a two-person. We all have both negative and positive attributes that completes us. We all need someone who would accept the two-person us. We all want someone who would need us that way. We all want our lives to matter. For sure we can’t all be famous at all once, all win at a single race.
But in our own little ways, to the peoplle that truly matter, our lives CAN matter.
Below are the 3 ways on how to make your life matter, no matter what you’re trying to accomplish in your life.
1. Stop trying to please everyone
I don’t know the formula of success but the formula to failure is trying to please everybody.
The only way to really make yourself happy is to do things that makes YOU happy. Stop trying to live up to everyone’s expectations and own set of definition of successful. Be your own success.
When you try to live your life the way the society wants you, you make other people happy. On the other hand, the moment you govern your life as what you truly pleases, you make YOU happy.
2. Don’t be in the rush
Getting in to the finish line is one great goal. However, trying to rush things up just to get to the finish line without enjoying the race and learning from it doesn’t make the run worthwhile. It’s like the world’s in a rush but the truth is, there’s no rush to greatness.
3. Don’t make irrational decisions
Don’t make permanent decisions on temporary emotions – Dr. Taub of (from the tv series, Dr. House)
Live your life one step at a time. Don’t be in the rush. Lastly, don’t worry to much about wanting to create an impact. Great things happen when you do your best without being so hard on yourself.